So it seems you said the right words and she said ‘Yes’ to dinner. Let’s keep it a Yes throughout the entire night. Shall we…?
As you drive down, walk by the popular eateries, do not point out where you’ve eaten and rate it. No one will then be thinking of the restaurant you are speaking of but, rather who has this person eaten here with? So skip the, ‘ I’ve eaten here and there ’.
Gentlemen make the decision. Don’t worry about what she likes or will not like. What if she hates Chinese food and you love it. Ugh, Mood Killer, right? Who doesn’t enjoy Chinese Food? - I don’t know, but that’s not the point. Ah Yes, the point of the Date, This Dinner… It’s about sex. We all want it at the end of the night.
So back to the Goal at hand; which everyone wants but, we cannot be screaming this out.
Gentlemen, have your restaurant chosen. One you are familiar and comfortable with is best. Also, a drive about 15-20 minutes away from her place is best. Too long of a trip can be awkward.
If you planned on taking her to a busy place, you better have taken reservations. Nothing feels more loserish than waiting outside a restaurant. IF God Forbid, this is the case, make your way to the bar and get her a seat, & a drink STAT. YES ask her what she wants to drink. Don’t just go ahead and order her a mystery I Want To Fuck You Drink, okay. Yes, that’s what we ladies think if you order us a drink and it tastes too strong. You will totally step backwards from Both of our goals for this evening.
Remember, it’s not all about you guys. You both need an uninhibited easy night…The less stress, the best.
So, you’re name is called. Let her walk in front of you, as the hostess leads. Pull out the chair from her and sit across. Booth? Let her slide in first, scooch in Right by her…Seriously, just do it, don’t be afraid to be close.
Ask for waters right away. Give her a few suggestions of what is good to eat there and go with the flow. When her drink is low, anticipate & ask her if she’d like another. Let her take lead of the conversation. Ask her questions about herself. Not too personal of questions. Ask basic questions like, where does she work, where is she from, siblings?, where has she traveled too and give back a little as well. Be interested, it’s nice to get to know people. A woman needs to have the feeling that you are into her; that you want to get to know her. So ask away.
Towards the end of your dinner, bring up your next plans. Perhaps, go out for more drinks, a comedy club (laughing can be a great turn on), live music bar/club (like a jazz/blues bar is great) or a quaint place you know of. I wouldn’t do a movie. Boring. Sleepy time. No one can speak to one another. How can you get to know each other and Want one another? That’s impossible with going to the movies.
Suggest a dessert to share.
When receiving bill, overlook it quickly. Don’t stare at it too long. Practice your percentages before your date, if you think you’re bad with calculating 15-18% gratuity.
Let her go in front of you as you’re walking out of the restaurant and make sure to be right behind her to get the door for her. Always get the door for her, car as well. Have good tunes ready in the car, messing around with the radio is a distraction. This goes for when you are picking her up as well, of course.
Enjoy your night of fun. It is meant to be nothing more than fun.
Xx…x
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