Dating, it's something everybody on earth does at least once or twice. You find your a person your interested in and you get to know more about them by spending time together. But dating usually comes with complications.
Problem #1: Change. When you first start seeing a person haven't you noticed that everything runs smoothly and there's always that though of "he or she is the one, they're everything I look for in a spouse." But then further on in the relationship complications come. Whether it's losing interest or just plain not getting along, one big problem is that further on in the relationship things change, and usually if both spouses don't get accustomed to the change, it doesn't work out.
Problem #2: Miscommunication. This is something that ruins countless numbers of relationships. When dating there is usually two things the spouses aren't on the same page with. It's either what they want in the future, meaning maybe the girl wants a husband and the guy just wants a nut bust so to speak. And the second is whether the relationship is more serious or just a dating type of thing.
Problem #3: Loss of interest. When dating in the beginning things may seem exiting and fun, but as time progresses you find yourself getting bored or loosing interest in the person. Loss of interest is normal, but it's usually a sign that the two people don't mesh well together
Problem #4: Fast Pace, When your dating and your find yourself liking a person, the dating can turn into a committed relationship extremely fast which is not always comfortable for the person on the other end. And that's when patience comes into play. If your spouse doesn't want to wait for a committed relationship things can get rocky pretty fast.
Problem #5: Commitment. Dating takes a lot of things but there one big deciding factor which is the big C word, commitment. When dating a person you have to be committed to many of things. Such as getting to know the person, and making time to see the person. Commitment shows you care, and truth is everyone wants be be cared for.
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