Rant: The world, love, and me

Marriage: ”Traditionally” Man and woman date, then marry, after that comes children, and grow old together. “These Days” Boy and Girl live together first or then kids come along , marriage is probably not even an idea, or if it is, then sign a Prenuptial Agreement.You might as well not get married if you’re already thinking about divorce. My “ideal” marriage is to date until I find the right one for me, and then get married, have children, and grow old together. If you get married, make sure he/she is the right one. If you probably think “oh 10 years marriage is a long enough time and then divorce” then dont get married! Find the one you know you will be with till you grow old together.

Love is only for the movies

When I was a young girl, I always dreamt of true love and if soulmates truly existed. Soulmates? A phrase that has been catch phrased into something that can only be obtainable through the silver screen.The media has reduced the true meaning of love. Movies and music videos alike have defined love in ways that only seems achievable through fairytales.

Every love story has to be a modern day reenactment of Cinderella, Snow White, or Sleeping Beauty.Women cannot meet a man, befriend a man, get to know that man, understand and grow to love that man, and fall deeply in love with that man for who he is. No matter the shape, the size, or the color.